In an attempt to avoid the pontification and aridity of the how-to
article, as my PsychologyToday.com articles, I've recently been embedding psychological and other
how-to-do-life issues in short-short stories.
Today's offering takes us into the mind of a person for whom school
"just isn't my thing." It explores his efforts to find a decent career.
Monday, February 29, 2016
Sunday, February 28, 2016
In Defense of Oddballs
One of today's dominant values is to celebrate diversity. But the
celebration tends to stop when we see someone whose behavior is even
moderately outside the norm.
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I argue that we, especially celebrants of diversity, should at least be more tolerant if not celebrate some oddballs in our midst.
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I argue that we, especially celebrants of diversity, should at least be more tolerant if not celebrate some oddballs in our midst.
Saturday, February 27, 2016
Should Atheists Try to Convert Believers?
I'm an unshakeable atheist. For me, it comes down to this:
I believe that man created "God" to cope with life's challenges, that it's extraordinarily unlikely that a God rather than a yet unexplained scientific process created the world and is an entity who, per the Bible, sees all, knows all, and is loving. After all, can we really rationalize billions of painful deaths to cancer, natural disasters, etc as "mystery beyond human comprehension," 'God's punishing man for his sins," or "God gave us free will?" I can't.
When religious people tell me about their faith, I'm faced with a decision: Do I try to disabuse them? In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I present the thought process I've gone through.
I believe that man created "God" to cope with life's challenges, that it's extraordinarily unlikely that a God rather than a yet unexplained scientific process created the world and is an entity who, per the Bible, sees all, knows all, and is loving. After all, can we really rationalize billions of painful deaths to cancer, natural disasters, etc as "mystery beyond human comprehension," 'God's punishing man for his sins," or "God gave us free will?" I can't.
When religious people tell me about their faith, I'm faced with a decision: Do I try to disabuse them? In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I present the thought process I've gone through.
Friday, February 26, 2016
Should Tackle Football and Boxing Be Banned?
Lately, we've been hearing about the concussions and brain damage associated with tackle football and boxing. That's on top of stories of the use of performance-enhancing drugs by players as young as high-school age.
Should tackle football and boxing be banned? In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer my internal debate on that question.
Should tackle football and boxing be banned? In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer my internal debate on that question.
Thursday, February 25, 2016
Reinventing How We Select Our Poltiical Leaders
I've seen more sadness and anger
about the current presidential campaign than any in my lifetime.
Of course, much of it is centered around Donald Trump: How could such a person be the leading GOP candidate?
At least in part, it's testimony to the system, in which money and bombast trump (pardon the expression) competence to do the job.
It is my own growing unhappiness with the system that motivated me to, here, update my WashingtonPost.com article on how to reinvent the way we select our political leaders. The updated version was just published on PsychologyToday.com.
Of course, much of it is centered around Donald Trump: How could such a person be the leading GOP candidate?
At least in part, it's testimony to the system, in which money and bombast trump (pardon the expression) competence to do the job.
It is my own growing unhappiness with the system that motivated me to, here, update my WashingtonPost.com article on how to reinvent the way we select our political leaders. The updated version was just published on PsychologyToday.com.
Wednesday, February 24, 2016
Before a First Kiss
In an attempt to avoid the pontification and aridity of the how-to
article, I've recently been embedding psychological and other
how-to-do-life issues in a short-short story.
Today's offering takes us into the mind of Sherry deciding whether to kiss Scott.
Today's offering takes us into the mind of Sherry deciding whether to kiss Scott.
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
A Young Adult Who Has Failed to Launch
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I post the transcript of a part of a career counseling session I had with a young man who graduated from college two years ago and doesn't feel ready to launch a career.
Monday, February 22, 2016
The Rapist: A short-short story about a psychotherapist's dilemma
In my PsychologyToday.com articles, I've recently been embedding psychological and ethical issues within a
short-short story.
Today's offering tells of a psychotherapist with a dilemma.
Today's offering tells of a psychotherapist with a dilemma.
Sunday, February 21, 2016
"A Wretch Like Me:" How Much Fallibility Should We Accept?
In my PsychologyToday.com contribution today, I offer a short-short story that explores the question of how much fallibility we should accept in a stranger? In a spouse?
Saturday, February 20, 2016
Conversion: A Short-Short Story About the Tension Among Religion, Homosexuality, Biology, and Family
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer a short-short story about the tension among religion, sexuality, and biology.
Friday, February 19, 2016
Are You Spending Too Much?
A 55-year old senior manager who was laid off and despite three diligent months of trying to land a similar paying job, remains without even a good lead.
My PsychologyToday.com article today presents a transcript of part of my session with him about cutting expenses.
My PsychologyToday.com article today presents a transcript of part of my session with him about cutting expenses.
Thursday, February 18, 2016
Is Honesty Really the Best Policy?
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer a short-short story about a run-of-the-mill dishonest person and what I'd say to him.
Wednesday, February 17, 2016
My Attempt to Help a Procrastinator
My PsychologyToday.com article today paraphrases a portion of a career counseling session I conducted today with an inveterate procrastinator.
Tuesday, February 16, 2016
An Addicted Physician: A short-short story
A survey reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association reported that 17% of physicians knew a doctor who was practicing while impaired or incompetent.
How could that be? After all, selection for and training for physicians is among the most rigorous.
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer a short-short story on how it can happen. It is a composite of experiences I've had with my career coaching clients.
How could that be? After all, selection for and training for physicians is among the most rigorous.
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer a short-short story on how it can happen. It is a composite of experiences I've had with my career coaching clients.
Monday, February 15, 2016
A Career Coach's Perspective on Choosing a Supreme Court Nominee, and Advising Donald Trump and Kanye West
In case a career
coach's perspective might be valuable in picking a Supreme Court
nominee and to Donald Trump and Kanye West, I offered my thoughts as my PsychologyToday.com article today.
P.S. The name that I withheld in the article is Sri Srinivasan
P.S. The name that I withheld in the article is Sri Srinivasan
Sunday, February 14, 2016
A Spiritually Oriented Person's Search for Meaning
Yesterday in PsychologyToday.com, I offered a short-short story about a scientifically oriented person's search for meaning.
Today, I offer a spiritually oriented person's search.
Today, I offer a spiritually oriented person's search.
Saturday, February 13, 2016
A Scientist's Search for Meaning
Hannah was working on among the most meaningful projects: trying to uncover the genes that cause early heart attack. And yet she suffered a crisis of meaning that made her quit.
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer a short-short story about her.
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer a short-short story about her.
Friday, February 12, 2016
The Procrastinator: A Short-Short Story
I've worried that a number of my how-to articles have been pontificating and/or boring.
In an attempt at remedy, on PsychologyToday.com, I've lately written a number of short-short stories embedding how-to messages. Today's addresses procrastination.
In an attempt at remedy, on PsychologyToday.com, I've lately written a number of short-short stories embedding how-to messages. Today's addresses procrastination.
Thursday, February 11, 2016
55 and "Laid Off." Now What?
Especially in the high-tech world, people over 50 are often seen as over the hill.
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer the advice I typically give to older employees who have been laid off.
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer the advice I typically give to older employees who have been laid off.
Wednesday, February 10, 2016
A Total Misfit: A short-short story about a man uninterested in what most people care about
Some people just don't fit in. They have no interest in what everyone else seems to be interested in.
I write a short-short story about such a person in my PsychologyToday.com article today.
I write a short-short story about such a person in my PsychologyToday.com article today.
Tuesday, February 9, 2016
Ups and Downs: A Look at Bipolar Disorder
In some recent PsychologyToday.com articles, I've embedded diagnostic and treatment
information on common mental disorders in a short-short story.
Today's offering is about a 30-year old with bipolar disorder, which afflicts 5.7 million Americans.
Today's offering is about a 30-year old with bipolar disorder, which afflicts 5.7 million Americans.
Monday, February 8, 2016
A Piano Tuner's Tempo: Romancing an Introvert
As regular readers of my work know, in my PsychologyToday blog, I've been experimenting with trying to embed psychological profiles into very short stories. Today's is about romancing an introvert.
Sunday, February 7, 2016
The "Wild Man": A Man Who Decided to Be Radically Honest
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I tell a short-short story about a man who, diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer, decides to be radically honest in service of the world. Was it a good idea? I'm not sure.
Saturday, February 6, 2016
Terror: A short-short story about a person with generalized anxiety disorder
In some of my PsychologyToday.com articles, I've embedded information about mental disorders and their treatment in a very short story. Today's effort focuses of generalized anxiety disorder.
Friday, February 5, 2016
The Un-MBA
I have helped many clients to become successfully self-employed. I see such a discordance between the principles of starting and running a business taught in business school and what I've seen work in the real world.
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I explain why core principles taught in MBA programs usually don't work in the real world...and what does.
Thursday, February 4, 2016
Buzz: A Short-Story Story About a Person with ADHD
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I wrote a short-short story about the life of a person with attention-deficit-hyperactivity disorder and how he coped, indeed thrived.
Wednesday, February 3, 2016
What's New in Neuropsychology?
Sure, many of today's "exciting findings" will become tomorrow's blind
alleys, but the quantity, quality, and centrality of the new neuropsychology research findings boosts my hope that we'll finally get those breakthrough cures and even
ways to make us better "normals."
I briefly describe the current crop of research findings in my PsychologyToday.com article today.
I briefly describe the current crop of research findings in my PsychologyToday.com article today.
Incorporating Your Hobby into Your Worklife
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer 15 ideas for incorporating your hobby into your worklife.