Monday, February 27, 2017
The World's Shortest Parenting Course
My PsychologyToday.com article today offers my best ideas on how to be a good parent.
Saturday, February 25, 2017
The Trader: A true story of how the Trump win can affect a marriage
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I tell the true story of one of my clients whose marriage has been damaged because of their polar views on President Trump as well as because of issues around money, religion, and decimated sex life because she has gained a lot of weight and because the flush of infatuation had faded. The story has implications for anyone in a relationship.
Thursday, February 23, 2017
Need an Idea for a Business to Start?
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer a few of my favorite ideas for businesses to start.
Wednesday, February 22, 2017
Exhausted After Work?
My most contented clients are not exhausted at the end of most work
days. They’re usually just pleasantly tired but with enough energy to
have a fulfilling after-work life.
Other clients say they need a lot of down time to recharge. So they do things like meditate, knit, and play video games. It has become clear to me that such approaches treat the symptom rather than the disease. When I probe, it often becomes clear that the client can change one or more things so they're not so drained by their work day. I list them in my PsychologyToday.com article today.
Other clients say they need a lot of down time to recharge. So they do things like meditate, knit, and play video games. It has become clear to me that such approaches treat the symptom rather than the disease. When I probe, it often becomes clear that the client can change one or more things so they're not so drained by their work day. I list them in my PsychologyToday.com article today.
Monday, February 20, 2017
Dealing with Fear of Growing Irrelevant
As we get older, if you’re like me, we worry about growing irrelevant. In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I share my feelings on that as well as how I'm attempting to deal with it constructively.
Sunday, February 19, 2017
In Defense of Duty
Duty, alas, has lost stature compared with such values as autonomy, creativity, and resistance. In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I argue that's not good for society.
Saturday, February 18, 2017
"People are a Minefield": A short-short story
We live in angry times. Many people feel they must be very careful in deciding how open to be, especially about politics, let alone about race, class, or gender. In addition, the hollowing out of the middle class is putting ever more people on edge.
As my PsychologyToday.com article today, I've written a short-short story that's a composite of my clients' and friends' real experiences.
As my PsychologyToday.com article today, I've written a short-short story that's a composite of my clients' and friends' real experiences.
Thursday, February 16, 2017
Advice for Burned-Out Lawyers
Many lawyers burn out. The competition,
ethical challenges, and heavy workload take a toll. And while most
people attend law school hoping to “make a difference,” many attorneys end up
doing work they don’t feel great about.
My PsychologyToday.com article today offers some options.
My PsychologyToday.com article today offers some options.
Solutions for Burned-Out Teachers
Many teachers are burned out but feel enchained by golden handcuffs. In
my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer suggestions for reinvigoration or if that's possible, options outside the classroom.
Tuesday, February 14, 2017
Time-Effectiveness: The Most Important Skill
In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I argue that time-efficiency may be the most important skill and how to improve yours.
Thursday, February 9, 2017
Happiness Through Solitude
Risha Jha, 30, prefers to spend most time alone, although he thinks he would like to get married. He tells his story in my PsychologyToday.com article today.
Sunday, February 5, 2017
A Speech I Wish President Trump Would Give
Like many people, I'm worried about whether President Trump will hurt our nation. One of my ways to cope with worry is to write.
As my PsychologyToday.com article today, I write the sort of speech I wish Trump would give, although there is near-zero chance he would.
Perhaps reading it might make you want to write what you think he should say or do. You might even, as I plan to, send your thoughts to the White House. Here’s the webpage where the public can do so.
As my PsychologyToday.com article today, I write the sort of speech I wish Trump would give, although there is near-zero chance he would.
Perhaps reading it might make you want to write what you think he should say or do. You might even, as I plan to, send your thoughts to the White House. Here’s the webpage where the public can do so.
Saturday, February 4, 2017
From Stress to Genes, Baboons to Hormones: An interview with Robert Sapolsky
My PsychologyToday.com article today is a wide-ranging interview with McArthur "Genius" fellow Robert Sapolsky. We talked stress, genetics, evolution, race, everything but Donald Trump.