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Sunday, February 13, 2022
The Importance of Asking Why: It helps you understand another person...and maybe yourself

My Psychology Today article today offers "why" questions that can help you understand yourself better and, if you're trying to understand another person, give wordings that reduce the chances that you'll be perceived as invasive.
After each question, I offer a few possible answers that are drawn from my clients, friends, and me. Those answers demonstrate how helpful such questions can be.
Wednesday, September 29, 2021
When You or Your Child Doesn't Have Close Friends

Many people, adults and kids, have casual friends but not close ones. My Psychology Today article today offers composite letters from such an adult and such a child and my responses to each.
Saturday, June 12, 2021
Tuesday, January 26, 2021
Your Child’s Friendships: Encouraging and developing good ones

My Psychology Today article today offers thoughts on how a parent can support a child in developing good friendships.
Wednesday, September 9, 2020
Losing Friends: What to do about political disagreement, hurt feelings, boredom

You liked each other . . . and then, splat. There are the standard reasons: taking offense, boredom, and outgrowing the person. But today, there's a fast-growing reason: political disagreement. The latter also truncates the universe of possible new friendships. These days it seems that people mainly befriend political kindred spirits.
My Psychology Today article today offers thoughts on each:
Monday, October 28, 2019
Your Child's Friends: Doables that encourage good friendships
Monday, December 8, 2014
Making and Keeping Good Friendships
After you’re out of school, it may not be as easy to make friends. My PsychologyToday.com article today may help. Here we’re talking about platonic friends, not romantic ones.
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Did You Ever Wish You Found a True Kindred Spirit?
When people tell me about an amazingly close friendship, it's usually between people who are almost alike, who could almost be twins. Perhaps that's what I want.
So, if after reading my blog posts and my profile, you feel you might be a true kindred spirit, feel free to email me at mnemko@comcast.net.


