Thursday, July 30, 2020

Should You Be Bolder or Less So? A self-assessment

cnener, CC 2.0
Some evidence suggests a genetic predisposition to risk-taking.
Not withstanding that and philosophical determinists from Kant to Sam Harris, I like to think we retain a measure of free will.  

With that as an assumption, my Psychology Today article today offers a self-assessment inventory that could help you decide whether you want to direct your free will in a new direction.

Wednesday, July 29, 2020

The Lonely Conservative: Ideas for the out-of-step

Bert Kaufmann, CC 2.0, Wikimedia
Anyone who is 65 or younger, especially if “well-educated,” has throughout their life, probably received a consistent message from society's mind molders—the schools colleges and media—that liberal is good, conservative is bad. 

Broadly, that translates into redistributing from the Haves to the Have-Nots: whether it’s more taxpayer-paid programs for the poor, supporting Palestinians over Israelis, and, of course, supporting Democrats over Republicans.

I have both liberal and conservative friends. In recent years and acceleratingly so in recent months, the liberals are feeling buoyed and/or angry, while the conservatives are more often sad, silenced, and often lonely. My Psychology Today article today offers a few thoughts for conservatives.

Tuesday, July 28, 2020

Should You Be More Suspicious or Less So? A 10-item self-assessment

When are we exercising due caution rather than crossing the line into over-suspiciousness?

Of course, that question can’t have a black-and-white answer. But it might help to inventory your level of trust in common situations and then reflect on whether and in what circumstances you should be more trusting or less. My Psychology Today article today offers a 10-item self-assessment.

Monday, July 27, 2020

Adventure: Is it time for a more or a less piquant life?

Rutger Van der Maar, Flickr, CC 2.0
Adventure. That word can evoke images from shopping to swashbuckling.
My Psychology Today article today offers composite letters, one from a person who is living a quite standard life, the other from someone who is living quite large. I offer thoughts to each.

Sunday, July 26, 2020

A Case for Silence: Why listening may be more important than ever

No author listed, Pikrepo, Public Domain
There certainly are times to speak up. At the macro level, we might speak out on a political issue. Micro, we often should ask for what we want lest we unduly sacrifice our agency. Plus, speaking is active learning: We grow from figuring out what to say and then saying it.

But these days, silence may be getting short shrift. I make the case in my Psychology Today article today.

Saturday, July 25, 2020

What To Believe: Distnguising truth from truthiness

Greg Williams, CC 2.5, Wikimedia
Stephen Colbert coined the term, "truthiness," which refers to an assertion that seems true but well may not be. In our heated times, it seems that truthiness has proliferated.

My Psychology Today article today attempts to make it easier to distinguish truth from truthiness.

Thursday, July 23, 2020

Aim for Easy: A counterpoint to our strive-hard society

Heather Katsoulis, Flickr, CC 2.0
Sure, there’s a time to go hard, for example, when competing in the Olympics. But perhaps surprisingly often, it's wise to aim for the easy. My Psychology Today article today offers easier options for approaches to activities in both your professional and personal life
 

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