My PsychologyToday.com article today is the third in a four-part series aimed at helping
professionals take their vocabulary to the highest level you’ll need in
the real world.
I present 21 words in a sentence. Your job is to decide whether it’s being used correctly.
Simply decide; true or false.
After I provide the answers, I've appended the definitions of the 327
words I identified in doing the research for this series. They are the
words I had heard of or read but didn’t know their meaning. There are
worse uses of your time than to learn ten a night, perhaps just an
activity to do during the commercials on TV.
Wednesday, May 31, 2017
Tuesday, May 30, 2017
The Meaning Behind the Meaning: A short-short story about lexical love
This is the second in a three-part series. It's for professionals who'd like to improve their vocabulary. The words are particularly helpful to people in the helping professions. This installment uses the short-short story format to avoid the how-to article’s aridity.
This installment uses the short-short story format to avoid the how-to article’s aridity.
This installment uses the short-short story format to avoid the how-to article’s aridity.
Labels:
vocabulary
Will Humans Be Necessary: Abridged and updated version
A while back, I wrote a long article, Will Humans Be Necessary?
As my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer a column-length and updated version.
As my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer a column-length and updated version.
Labels:
automation,
career advice,
singularity
Sunday, May 28, 2017
Should You Change Careers or Merely Pivot?
As my PsychologyToday.com article today, I've posted an edited transcript of my exchange with a caller to my radio
program today. It offers thoughts for anyone thinking they want to
dramatically change their life.
Labels:
career change
Inducing the Swoon: How an average person can land an above-average job.
In a rational world, the average person wouldn’t get hired for an
above-average job. After all, the internet enables the employer to
expose an opening to millions of job seekers, get dozens if not hundreds
of applicants, and applicant tracking software and job-simulation
testing enable employers to select the best candidate. That’s rarely an
average person.
Yet average people get hired every day. How? Because the employer doesn’t care enough to do a thorough search or has irrationally become fond enough of a person to forgo a more rational hiring process.
My PsychologyToday.com article today shares tips for how to induce the swoon.
Yet average people get hired every day. How? Because the employer doesn’t care enough to do a thorough search or has irrationally become fond enough of a person to forgo a more rational hiring process.
My PsychologyToday.com article today shares tips for how to induce the swoon.
Labels:
job hunt,
job hunting,
job search
Saturday, May 27, 2017
The Making of a Mass School Shooter: A short-short story
Why do most of the mass school shooters seem cut from a similar mold? In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I forward one hypothesis.
Labels:
anger,
bullying,
mass school shootings
Thursday, May 25, 2017
Answering Job Ads: An underrated tool if done right.
Job seekers are told to emphasize networking over answering ads. But done right, answering ads can often pay off. My PsychologyToday.com article today explains why and how.
Labels:
answering ads,
job hunting,
job search,
networking
Wednesday, May 24, 2017
How it Might All Play Out: Jobs likely to survive even in a highly automated world.
My PsychologyToday.com article today describes jobs likely to survive even in a highly automated world.
Labels:
career advice,
jobs predictions
Tuesday, May 23, 2017
46 Uncommon But Useful Words
As my PsychologyToday.com contribution today, I define 46 uncommon but useful words.
Labels:
vocabulary
Monday, May 22, 2017
About to Get Fired
As my PsychologyToday.com contribution today, I offer an edited transcript of the exchange between me and a caller to my radio program who is about to get fired.
Labels:
performance improvement plan,
termination
The Retirement Party: A short short story
My PsychologyToday.com contribution today is a short-short story that explores what goes through Charlie's mind at his retirement party. It addresses the tension between authenticity and being socially correct.
Labels:
aging,
authenticity,
retirement
Sunday, May 21, 2017
The Bar-Mitzvah: A short-short story about being judgmental.
As my PsychologyToday.com contribution today, I offer a short-short story that tells the thoughts of a person attending a bar-mitzvah. Does he deserve opprobrium as "judgmental" or praise for his discernment?
Labels:
atheism,
discerment,
judgment,
materialism
Saturday, May 20, 2017
"Do You Take This..." A short-short story about the decision to marry
Here's a short-short story that tells what's going through a couple's mind as the officiant asks them to take the marriage vows. That's my PsychologyToday.com contribution today.
Labels:
marriage,
should you marry
Thursday, May 18, 2017
"Are You Going Crazy?" A short-short story about middle-class stress
As my PsychologyToday.com contribution today, I offer a short-short story about middle-class stress.
Note: This photo is merely of someone staring. He bears no relation to the story's protagonist.
Note: This photo is merely of someone staring. He bears no relation to the story's protagonist.
Labels:
alienation,
anomie,
middle-class stress,
stress
Managing People
Today, a career counseling client told me he’d like to move from being an
individual contributor to a manager of people.
But while he's in-step with current management beliefs—be collaborative and a good listener---he fears he’s too nice and that smart, strong supervisees could steamroll him.
He doesn’t want to spend the time and money on an MBA or other extensive management training. So he asked me if I could offer some streamlined advice. I share what I said in my PsychologyToday.com article today.
But while he's in-step with current management beliefs—be collaborative and a good listener---he fears he’s too nice and that smart, strong supervisees could steamroll him.
He doesn’t want to spend the time and money on an MBA or other extensive management training. So he asked me if I could offer some streamlined advice. I share what I said in my PsychologyToday.com article today.
Labels:
leadership,
management,
people skills
Tuesday, May 16, 2017
Straight Talk for Employees 50+
Much advice to older employees is Pollyannish. In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I attempt to offer more helpful advice.
Labels:
older workers,
retirement
Sunday, May 14, 2017
Doubt: 19 Questions with answers less certain than many people believe.
Today, we seem ever more polarized. Of course, the U.S. presidential
election brought this into full relief but apart from that.
Excessive zeal leads to excessive closed-mindedness, intolerance, and enmity.
In a small (if lengthy) attempt to engender moderation, my PsychologyToday.com article today lists some of the day’s more contentious positions and reasons why moderate positions and certainly respect for differing opinions is justified.
Excessive zeal leads to excessive closed-mindedness, intolerance, and enmity.
In a small (if lengthy) attempt to engender moderation, my PsychologyToday.com article today lists some of the day’s more contentious positions and reasons why moderate positions and certainly respect for differing opinions is justified.
Labels:
moderation,
open-mindedness,
political correctness
Thursday, May 11, 2017
12 Questions We Should Ask
Asking the right questions can get you information you want. That can also make the person feel important or cared about.
My PsychologyToday.com article today lists a dozen questions that can be particularly potent.
This article is part of a series. The others are:
10 Expressions Everyone Should Stop Saying Now.
13 Things Everyone Should Stop Doing.
13 Things Many People Don’t Do but Should.
11 Questions Everyone Should Ask Themselves
My PsychologyToday.com article today lists a dozen questions that can be particularly potent.
This article is part of a series. The others are:
10 Expressions Everyone Should Stop Saying Now.
13 Things Everyone Should Stop Doing.
13 Things Many People Don’t Do but Should.
11 Questions Everyone Should Ask Themselves
Labels:
good questions,
self-help
Come See My One-Man Show, Odd Man Out
I'm doing my one-man-show, Odd Man Out this Saturday afternoon.
It's a bit of a misnomer to call it a one-man show because my wife Barbara Nemko pops up periodically to annoy me. Plus, awesome singer Jeffrie Givens and I tell her amazing story in words and song. The word "amazing" is overused but not in Jeffrie's case.
The show has been reviewed twice, in the Berkeley Daily Planet and in the Napa Valley Register.
The performance is this Saturday, May 13, at 1:00 PM at the Octopus Literary Salon: 2101 Webster St., Oakland, CA. $10. For more info and tix, click HERE.
It's a bit of a misnomer to call it a one-man show because my wife Barbara Nemko pops up periodically to annoy me. Plus, awesome singer Jeffrie Givens and I tell her amazing story in words and song. The word "amazing" is overused but not in Jeffrie's case.
The show has been reviewed twice, in the Berkeley Daily Planet and in the Napa Valley Register.
The performance is this Saturday, May 13, at 1:00 PM at the Octopus Literary Salon: 2101 Webster St., Oakland, CA. $10. For more info and tix, click HERE.
Labels:
marty nemko,
odd man out,
political correctness
Wednesday, May 10, 2017
11 Questions Everyone Should Ask Themselves
This is the fourth installment of a PsychologyToday.com series. The first was 10 Expressions Everyone Should Stop Saying Now. The second was, Ten Things Everyone Should Stop Doing. The third was 13 Things Many People Don’t Do but Should.
Today, I pose 11 questions everyone should ask themselves.
Today, I pose 11 questions everyone should ask themselves.
Labels:
introspection,
self-help
13 Things Many People Don't Do...but Should: Relationships, Your Internal Self, Career, Money, the Big Picture
This is the third installment of my PsychologyToday.com series. The first was 10 Expressions Everyone Should Stop Saying. The second was, Ten Things Everyone Should Stop Doing. Today, I post the 3rd: 13 Things Many People Don't Do...but Should.
Labels:
career advice,
relationship advice,
self-help
Monday, May 8, 2017
Ten Things Everyone Should Stop Doing Now
As my PsychologyToday.com article today, I post the sequel to 10 Expressions Everyone Should Stop Saying Now.
Labels:
self-help
"Why I Renounced Sex?" A short-short story about a man's decision to try celibacy.
My PsychologyToday.com article today explores a man's decision to try celibacy.
Labels:
celibacy,
impotence,
low sex drive
Saturday, May 6, 2017
Dual-Income Couples: Challenges and Solutions
I describe some challenges and solutions for dual-income couples in my PsychologyToday.com article today.
Labels:
dual-income couples,
men's issues
Fired: A true story about a comeback
Movies, TV shows, and magazines tell of people whose lives were a zero and now at a 10. Far more realistic is the true story I tell in my PsychologyToday.com article today.
Labels:
career advice,
resilience
Thursday, May 4, 2017
The Case for a Career as a Songwriter
As a thought experiment, I decided to try to make a case for pursuing one of the careers least likely to generate even a survival living: songwriter. I post that as my PsychologyToday.com article today.
Labels:
choosing a career,
finding a career,
songwriting
Wednesday, May 3, 2017
The Arguer: A short-short story about cooperation vs competition
I explore the pros and cons of arguing in my PsychologyToday.com short-short story today.
Tuesday, May 2, 2017
Developing Drive: Building motivation depends on why it's low.
Developing drive is among my clients' most central problems. In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I offer three prescriptions for addressing the problem .
Labels:
developing drive,
motivation,
procrastination,
willpower
Seed: A short-short story
We can be motivated by the thought we're planting seeds. I tell a short-short story about that as my PsychologyToday.com contribution today.
Labels:
artistic career,
motivation,
unstuck
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