Not-Quite Resolutions

A Human Life Coach vs Google's AI

I Am What I Am

Accept Yourself or Try to Change?

Doables Easy actions that can make a difference in your career and personal life

Most people find it hard to make big changes. The ideas I offer in my PsychologyToday.com article today are more doable— No personality transplant required. Yet they can make a difference in your life.

8 Potentially Life-Changing Gifts

Sweaters, jewelry, and even socks are okay but especially for people who are psychologically or personal-growth oriented, one of the eight gifts I suggest in my PsychologyToday.com article today might be more appreciated and beneficial.

You're Rejected and Don't Know Why

You email a request. Silence.

You ask someone out. The response? An unhelpful, “I don’t think we’re a good fit.”

You’re fired or your job application is rejected. You ask why and all you get is a vague answer like, “We decided to go in a different direction.”

And some people go through life largely rejected and rarely get any useful feedback as to why.

What to do?

You have no choice but to self-assess, and that may be for the best.

My PsychologyToday.com article today asks you some questions to help with that self-assessment.

Feedback Finding the courage to solicit, curate, and act on it without undue defensiveness.

Feedback is key to our growing. So if we care to improve ourselves, we must gird ourselves to endure the short-term pain of risking reaming for the long-term gain in professional and personal efficacy.

In my PsychologyToday.com article today, I describe how to find the courage to solicit, curate, and act on feedback without undue defensiveness.